We , people, tend to assume about other people. We tend to be judgemental and have fixations. We say things like ” i would never” , ” if i were her/him i would do more” , ” my child will never scream like that” and so on. You get the point.
And then, comes the day when you face that exact same situations. And you start seeing so many other circumstances. You get that not everything is black or white. It comes in shades of gray so many times. And that’s ok.
Life is supposed to be colourful, not just black and white.
So what do you do? Well , you stumble, and cry, you tell yourself this can’t happen to you. Everything you believed in is turning upside down. And that ‘s ok.
We change. We evolve. Embrace that change. Embrace that pain that comes same time when you face a reality. Let it hurt for a bit. Give yourself a break. Then, get back and change the perspective. This is the new you. The new mature you. Little bit wiser.
Just don’t be stuck in the past. How do you want to live? Black or white ? Or full of colours?
Add a new shade to your life every day.